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Apply asymmetry detection between standards for self and
Apply asymmetry detection between standards for self and standards for others to identify shame-based expectations, because compassion asymmetry reveals where internal pressure has exceeded reasonable evaluation.
Why This Is a Principle
Combines attribution patterns (People interpret failure as either evidence about their), shame vs. guilt distinction (Behavior-focused negative self-evaluation is psychologically, Guilt motivates approach behaviors while shame motivates). Neff's compassion test is derived diagnostic: comparing self-standards to other-standards surfaces unreasonable harshness. This is detection methodology.