Anti-patternv1AP-031
Boundaries-as-rejection anti-pattern
believing that setting a boundary is an act of rejection rather than a structural requirement for sustainable relationships, which prevents boundary-setting due to fear of abandonment and guarantees eventual resentment
Why This Is an Anti-Pattern
Inverts boundary-depletion (Boundary-depletion pattern). Violates boundary function. Recurs in codependency, people-pleasing, fawn response, burnout.