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When two ideas contradict each other, both cannot be fully true in the same sense — the tension between them is informative, not a problem to suppress.
Testing your beliefs against reality is the core practice of intellectual integrity. Epistemic honesty is not a personality trait — it is a discipline you build by systematically subjecting your schemas to evidence, welcoming disconfirmation, and refusing to protect comfortable models from uncomfortable data.
The willingness to look directly at your contradictions is the hallmark of serious thinking.