The irreducible epistemic atoms underlying the curriculum. 4,828 atoms across 8 types and 2 molecules
When a boundary violation occurs with another person, initiate repair within 24 hours using the three-step sequence: acknowledge the violation explicitly, reassert the boundary without softening, and address the practical or emotional cost the violation created.
After the first boundary violation by the same person, conduct repair with clearly stated consequences; after the second violation, enact the stated consequences rather than issuing new warnings, to distinguish boundary flexibility from boundary erosion.
When you hold positional authority or high status within a group, prioritize modeling boundaries over communicating boundary policies, because your visible behavior establishes the actual permission structure more powerfully than stated rules.
When you notice yourself censoring thoughts or managing another person's emotions during conversations, use that observation as a diagnostic signal that the relationship lacks sufficient boundaries to support honest exchange, then design one boundary that would enable you to speak more freely.