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Insert a deliberate pause between feeling pressure and acting on it.
Your automatic emotional reaction to events is a default that can be redesigned.
The same emotion means different things in different contexts.
Changing how you interpret a situation changes the emotion it produces.
Asking how you will feel about this in a year reduces immediate emotional intensity.
Extract the useful information from criticism without being destabilized by its emotional charge.